Many female subs feel that message that has
baffled them a good portion of their lives, is the critical need to be a ~good
girl~, according to the mainstream culture's definition, as well as those, they
have great respect for. Essentially, the term ~good~ runs the gambit from being
a good daughter to a good employee. However, for many, there is a silent, or
perhaps, a not-so-silent force brewing just beneath the surface that does not
necessarily reflect goodness, as folks in traditional society would stipulate.
The majority of the time, sleeping inside many
women, is a beast, or their raw, uncensored soul, which essentially consists of
the stuff ~bad girls~ were made from, at least according to society's meaning.
The wanton creature that is resting within them is not often stirred from its
slumber, however, their whole person may blush from what is generated by the
bad, or perhaps, the naughty beast who yearns to be free. I strongly feel that
there are periods, usually unexpected, when there is an inner conflict
attempting to reconcile the good vs. the bad. And often enough, they manage to
keep the wanton tigress chained and locked away from sight.
There are occasions where in only their
deepest, darkest fantasies, would they secretly escape to observe their
uncensored souls resting, however, fitfully. For many, the beast manifests
itself through those focused, but often, these unfocused desires and fantasies
that many are scared to demonstrate to the world at large. So many women live
their lives rarely digressing from being the ~good girl~ Even with the
introduction to our particular subculture, they tend to maintain what the
mainstream defines as good and wholesome. I have often stated if a woman and/or
submissive could have the courage to confront her uncensored soul, she could
resolve the periodic battles that are waged within her and find contentment, as
well as, learn more about herself.
~D
In alot of cases, it requires her finding some
dominant figure she can trust, and has the patience, strength, and self-control
to delve deep inside her and bring the wanton creature to the surface, both
knowing he could control her alter soul. I am not knocking or denigrating
traditional and/or vanilla relationships. Anything is possible when two
consenting adults get together, however, I think the power-exchange
relationship is the one most likely to produce those results. The debate of the
lifestyle relationship vs. a vanilla one will always rage forward, but I feel that
this a topic that deserves its own arena.
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