Low or Lack of Self-Esteem: Across the Wide Landscape

This is how sometimes low or the lack or self-esteem, thereof, manifests itself through many individuals, particularly subs, slaves, and baby-girls'. It is also extremely helpful that often how those individuals see themselves, their partners tend to see and feel the direct opposite:

Subs/slaves/baby-girls: I cannot stand to look at myself, but he cannot keep his hands off me."

You also have to remember something that is happening, but rarely discussed given the expectations and recriminations of a mainstream culture:

Dominants/Masters: "It is just as hard to be KEN as it is to be BARBIE!"