I
suspect that there a number of folks who identify as submissive, however, a
great many would not realize it.
There are a quite a few subs who have a very
strong, Dominant personality, intermittently, and are rather opinionated when
it comes to certain aspects.
It
is very likely that these particular individuals have been through hell, made
mistakes, and have come out the other side of it proud, confident, sure and
unrepentant.
However,
when it comes to personal relationships, they tend to have this deep-seated
longing to be controlled, commanded, and dominated.
He
or she does not desire to be dominant in relationships, and they do not enjoy
it.
I
suspect it is the thrill of surrendering, bending to a will that is stronger
than his or her own, being treated like an object, or being used.
Some
may feel that it is more of an arousal than any foreplay he or she has ever
had, and it tends to inspire a pure, unwavering loyalty in them that they do
not often experience.
I
suspect the only dilemma is, despite his or her desire to be submissive, their
dominant streak sometimes holds them back.
Perhaps,
something was not said in an intimidating-enough tone, or something is allowed
to slip and he or she was not admonished for it, and they cannot find or see
themselves able to submit to something or someone that is not complete
domination.
This
particular thread post poses the following questions:
How
many subs out there are strong-willed, independent, proud and unrepentant?
OR
Do
you feel you could possibly be a Dominant in denial?
MORE
IMPORTANTLY,
How
do your keep the strength from conflicting with the desire to obey?
Source:
Unknown
David Coates I think
that reaction from a strong sub or slave is normal.
It is not enough in D/s to just submit to another, you also have to be 'taken' by the Dominant.
When a sub simply submits to me without any effort or anything very dominating from my part of it,
I just do not have any serious interest in that sub anymore.
It does not feel real when it is too easy, IMHO.
It is not enough in D/s to just submit to another, you also have to be 'taken' by the Dominant.
When a sub simply submits to me without any effort or anything very dominating from my part of it,
I just do not have any serious interest in that sub anymore.
It does not feel real when it is too easy, IMHO.
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