Some
folks have likely been the victim of one or perhaps both of these types of
individuals.
Often,
we have a tendency to link the two treacherous personas together as one.
Predators and assholes do indeed share many of
the same characteristics, however, there is a critical, distinct contrast.
A
predator is typically defined as a person who continually and deliberately sets
out to hurt and destroy people making their victims live in total fear of them,
an almost serial aspect
Whereas,
an asshole may do some similar predatory aspects because they may have been
hurt, jealous, insecure, or a whole myriad of reasons.
Unlike
predators, assholes do not necessarily stalk and purposely make them live in
fear.
I
am not in anyway saying that my definitions of these personas are gospel as
different people have their own subjective viewpoints.
There
seem to be predatory assholes as there are likely asshole predators.
I
feel that the intent and purpose of this particular thread for those who elect
to respond is to share experiences, if any, with both types of personas, and if
so, how the dilemma was resolved.
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David
Coates There's probably a great deal more assholes than actual
predators, not that two are mutually exclusive. I also am envisioning a Venn
Diagram
You often don't hear stories about the Dominants being stalked, particularly the male ones, but it does happen, and has happened to me.
For me, it was a phrase that sounds like the narrator's voice of the guy who does the movie trailer for an upcoming thriller or suspense genre: THE RELEASE: "HAVING AN EX-SUB CAN BE MURDER!! Coming soon to a dungeon near you! Women are socialized to make men feel good, to “let him down easy”. Not to say a clear and direct “NO” but speak in hints and boost egos and let people save face. People who don’t respect the social contract (rapists, predators, assholes, pickup artists) are good at taking advantage of this. “NO” is something we have to learn. “NO” is something we have to earn.
You often don't hear stories about the Dominants being stalked, particularly the male ones, but it does happen, and has happened to me.
For me, it was a phrase that sounds like the narrator's voice of the guy who does the movie trailer for an upcoming thriller or suspense genre: THE RELEASE: "HAVING AN EX-SUB CAN BE MURDER!! Coming soon to a dungeon near you! Women are socialized to make men feel good, to “let him down easy”. Not to say a clear and direct “NO” but speak in hints and boost egos and let people save face. People who don’t respect the social contract (rapists, predators, assholes, pickup artists) are good at taking advantage of this. “NO” is something we have to learn. “NO” is something we have to earn.
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